28 Apr 2014

the secretary

When I read "the 50 shades of grey' I wasn't very impressed. But today I remembered how impressed I was when I saw the movie 'the secretary'. To me it was fun, intriguing and the ultimate love story. The actors have something to do with it as well of course. I have always thought James Spader the actor to play that hot sizzling under the skin kind of attractive man. Maggie Gyllenhaal is just superb in this movie as the Secretary, sultry, teasing and ever so convincing.

The story of this Mr. Grey and his secretary is interesting and for me very erotic and sensual. But the love story, how they got caught into each others web is lovely. And I like how BDSM is intertwined in the movie in a non offensive manner. I do not want to tell the story here so that if you haven't watched it, I will not be the spoiler of all.

Why do I like this movie so much, because it makes me long. To me it has this feel of this deep eroticism that comes for control, orders and pain. I love that the most. I love how he cares for her and I adore the fact how she eats a pea or does the office work restrained.

The way He saddles her on His office table, quietly and with care and how he talks to her. I love it.

The best thing is how she shows her commitment to Him at the end. By then You can drag me away. Yes... I surrender!

22 Apr 2014


For Woody

There they are: these dangly bits of men. As a girl growing up watching the Olympics I would always wonder if it hurt running with them dangly bits... or squashed riding a bike. Far more fascinating was how a dangly bit would become smaller or how it would rise to the occasion. So just for fun..... the Penis!

In Finland there is a Phallological Museum, which has a large variety but is missing a member:

So Elmo might win?

This picture of the penis of Michelangelo's David must have been reassuring to all, or not. But I remember how small I thought it was. Does size matter and perhaps a larger penis would be thought far to arousing. However if you would make a row of a hundred naked man, it wouldn't be so extraordinary. Perhaps my mind is as much polluted by the vision of big penis. Looking at naked statues, paintings of men over the centuries naked size didn't matter. It just depicts a penis in a relaxed state, David is standing there not to impress Goliath sexually.

Does size matter?  I think it does. the many tombs at the cemetery of Pere Lachaise in Paris is one of a journalist named David Noir. The dead man is now mostly known for his large penis. Am I a crotch pervert? Yes! Do they make me smile? This suit does!

A penis seems to be more like an extra member to men. As they give them names and they are personalized as a 'at times stubborn or unruly' mate that tags along for the fun. Women in general do not name their personal petting device. However when I saw these pictures below I do somehow start to understand.

                                                                                                                                                                 A penis as a funny out of control member of society is also visible in how men deal with the times themselves with some good fun and humor. You can even do a Penis dress up! I wonder who might win this race? This is the start of the race... is it?

That the penis itself rules men, or as we have a saying in Holland, which is accurate in some ways that men only follow their penis and not their brain is depicted in this statue. 

Robert Mapplethorpe made a selfie of His penis. I like the shape of His.

I love them erect in any shape or form. What I love the best is getting to know that special part.. feel it... understand the needs.

And I love to play with it and most of all being ordered around to do so!