30 Mar 2015

yummy tummy

When I was young I would sit on my mothers lap and just sit there and enjoy her breasts and tummy as these wonderful comfortable soft cushions. My mother had 5 children and for my father she was the most beautiful woman on earth. He would look at her and I could see the word 'yummy' all over his face.

In my high school class I was the skinny one but there would be girls with round hips, and lovely soft bellies looking absolutely sexy and other would already have breasts I could be deeply jealous of. As women we get many body images thrown at us. Images of what we should look like. We might want a Kim Kardashian or a J-Lo. Some yearn to look like a Victoria secrets model. And if I look at plus size models, they do not look plus size to me. We judge endlessly and with a very shallow attitude. It takes a healthy attitude to accept what you look like and if you do not, look at the whole package that you are. 

So if you have a wobbly belly, a flat tummy or a hanging one, just know it is a yummy tummy nevertheless. 

26 Mar 2015


The museum white walls
clean elaborate work
we, girls, enjoyed the visit
on the top floor 
a distinguished older man,
passed by and she saw
his shoe, the shoelace
dragging over the floor
we had a flirt
a good one, welcoming one
I kneeled to tie it up
it is my secret pleasure
how a shoe is laced up
establishing tightness
it is pure eroticism
he had no idea
how much pleasure that
gave me… and us
nor do I know how much
pleasure we gave him
we all walked away
we, girls, chuffed
like naughty little girls

20 Mar 2015

10 facts about female beauty

Beauty is in your mind, self-image and self-worth

1. Everyone has rolls when they bend over.

2. When someone tells you that you're beautiful, believe them. They aren't lying.

3. We all wake up, looking as if we just woke up.

4. For every woman unhappy with her stretch marks is another woman who wishes she had them.

5. You should DEFINITELY have more confidence. And if you saw yourself the way that others see you, you would.

6. Don't look for a man to save you. Be able to save yourself.

7. It's okay to not love every part of your body…but you should.

8. We all have that one friend who seems to have it all together. That woman with the seemingly 
perfect life. Well, you might be that woman to someone else.

9. You should be a priority. Not an option, a last resort, or a backup plan.

10. Photoshopped pictures of women are no role-models.