22 Nov 2015


It slips and slides
Against my skin
As Your hands fumble
Knots the rope
The music upbeat
We talk and laugh
The music changes
You continue
My breasts, my back
Every move sensual
Your vision
The rope like a corset
Around my body
I slowly float off
In my own world
But still aware
Of the rope
And Your hands
Now and then
Gently caressing
In between knots
Until I am immobile
Vulnerable and strong
You leave me
The pain starts
The rope feels rough
Raspy against my skin
You decide
To untie slowly
Me with the rope
As it slips and slides
Against my skin
What had been
In Your arms

17 Nov 2015


So I started to wonder what kind of Dominant fits me. What do I expect from a Dominant and it might sound silly but I never really gave it a good thought. So what do I seek in a Dominant?

So I do have some experience and I found out that I dislike a Dominant with a short temper. I prefer patience. I believe patience is one of the best traits a Dominant can have.

Another thing I prefer in a Dominant is that I can share my feelings, thoughts, vulnerabilities, but most important that he can do that too. Being a Dominant doesn't mean that he has to be strong all the time. It would worry me greatly.

Although I want to be able to snuggle up after play knowing that he understands I need that time after being 'used' to balance myself again. I need to feel that care and love. I really need a Dominant who cuddles freely, who makes sure I am warm if I sink into subspace, who looks after.

I need a Dominant who can be sadistic, caring and who can put me in my place. Someone that can really challenge me, teasing me with mind play and at the same time that I know in the far corner of my brain that he will make sure I am safe.

In a way, although I think I am not a 'little' I love to have a Dominant who can find the good traits of a 'daddy' within him: Unconditional love and support, Primary protector, Emotional Sanctuary, Mentor and Teacher, Tantric Sexuality, Discipline and Reliability.

With all of that I prefer equality within the dynamic. I do not expect someone to be strong all the time. 

It is not only about D/s, kink, but also about getting to know each other and sharing on just other levels than kink.

And last but certainly not least; I want a Gentleman, who opens the doors and more. But of course a Gentleman with a Dark side.

So what do you expect of a Dominant?