naughty tools

fun at home
BDSM Equipment is expensive. In most of Europe you can rent for a day or a weekend, a dungeon or a cottage fully equipped. Others are lucky enough to have a playroom in their house. At times it is hard to live your dream within a household with children.  In Second Life many of us try to live their dream in secrecy and have to be creative to either give orders that are possible within a Vanilla household.
But there is a lot of fun playing with household items.

So what can we use, without attracting too much attention. After my reading in voice of the story: “Cold as Ice”, we had a talk of items we can use. I placed already a manual on how to make an ice dildo/ice cock on this site and a way to do self-bondage.  But here is a reflection of the talk we had. I want to thank all for their open and fun contributions. I might have forgotten a few items mentioned, but here is a recollection of some. I would love any comment, idea or criticism!

Most of all, with every thing you try, do your research! Know what are you doing and be careful, BDSM can be about pain, but it is not to hurt you. Do invest some time in researching it makes the play so much fun!

You can use (tennis, hockey, etc) balls to masturbate with or ordered too.
Although some mentioned it might be handy if anyone in the house actually do these sports ;-)

Baodin balls
Fun to use and in different sizes.
(have a laugh and read my story stress relief)

Candles (wax play)
Find the good ones! Read all the information first as there are different kind of temperatures to different kinds of candles) I like waxplay.....btw :)

Chinese meditating chiming balls
Exceellent to work the mucles of the vagina and at the same time being “massaged by the movement of the balls.

Clothes pegs
Aren’t they simply adorable? You can almost place them anywhere and leave them for a while. Be careful though not take the bloodstream away for to long. But even though I always dread the moment I have to take them off, it is that beautiful stinging pain I simply adore. You can also easily make a string of clothes pegs.
(do ponder with me and read clothespin)

Electric toothbrush
Well it is like a miniature vibrator and can used close to the clit….. so good.

Figging (gingerfinger)
Fresh ginger can be used to play it is lovely and so simple to make.
(Delightfully to use on information how to use it click figging)

For electric play and it is safe but do your homework
there will be a d.i.y explanation added)

Ice dildo or ice cock
Very easy to make and so easy to disappear.
(For a manual on how to make it click ice dildo)

A spiky wooden hairbrush, both sides.

Horse whips 
Yes they do work on us humans too (and the ponies amongst us evidently)

Hot cream
That cream that relaxes and warms the muscles… heat up so nicely....

For fire play, just to scare and not to burn please, or to light the candles.

Magic wands (Hitachi)
For massage only..... ofcourse

The sting a the nettles are harmless and will die away. (good for soup and with pasta too)

Like clothespins but most of them have a stronger...bite.

Pingpong bats 
Like paddles (and you can change the surface......)

Rope for bondage
Various ropes can be used, but I advise to use natural materials. Some like more soft ones and some prefer hard, crude rope. (And being alone in the home, do not tie yourself up in a way you cannot make it loose!)
selfbondage (click and you will find the page with the description)

It can be used creatively on various parts of the body. A teaser after shaving for example

And they do come with handles in different sizes, shapes and material. Very lovely to use like a dildo.

Very effective as a paddle

wonderful for male genital torture (please be carefull there too)

Wooden spoon
To be ordered to hit oneself with a wooden spoon on your genitals or butt is for those who like pain quite lovely.

words are lovely household tools and taken out of the cupboard when needed any time

Well I think my list could be much, much longer but who knows how far we get.
A lot more can be used… I bet.


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